Our friends and family threw us the sweetest shower on Sunday. We received lots of wonderful gifts and had a lot of fun making bows and decor for her room. The decorations were super cute and in keeping with the Russian theme we had wonderful pasteries, tea and some Russian punch.
Everyone at the shower decorated a letter to hang on her wall. Some went home with cuts and/or burns on their fingers but I for one think it was worth it. Look how cute it looks!
Monday, September 26, 2011
Sunday, September 18, 2011
There's been a crime!
These two bandits claim they were framed! Do you think they are guilty of the "Play Town" bank robbery? Please vote off to the side. If found guilty its early bed time all week!
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Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Day 4
So today we left to visit P at 9am. We got to the baby home about 10. We put the protective plastic wear on our feet and went in. Our visit with P today was a bit different than it has been. She is no longer nervous or apprehensive when she sees us. She came right in and within a few minutes she was ruling the place. She was very opinionated about what she wanted to do and what she didn't want to do. She is very independent and we will have to work hard to change that. We will have to teach her to depend on us and count on us in order to attach. After our visit we went to have our medicals done. From there we went to officially sign the papers indicating that we want to be her parents. After that we went to lunch with our translator Galina. She was wonderful. She talked openly and honestly about life in the Soviet Union days. She explained the ways in which the Russian people are better off now and the ways in which they are not. She spoke of the troubles they have today with money and healthcare. I really enjoyed listening to her it was so interesting. After lunch we went back to the baby home for our final visit. We found out when she learned to walk and when she stood for the first time. We played with her for about an hour. She colored, stacked cups, danced, and played ball. Then her care taker came to get her. We gave her the blanket we had made for her and her picture album. We took some pictures of her with us and with the caregivers. We gave her kisses and then off she went. I turned to Joe and broke down. It was so very hard to leave her today. Joe and I both cried all the way to the car. Gilina felt so sad for us. Her and our driver Boris took us to a souvenir shop to buy a few more things for our family. We got out of the car and had to ring a door bell to enter the shop. While we were in there they offered us shots of vodka or "sweet wine" which btw isn't wine...it's sweet hard liquor. We quite enjoyed the novelty of this. we purchased a few items and then headed for the hotel. It was quite the day. We are headed home tomorrow morning. I can't wait to get home and hug my boys. I miss them terribly.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Day 3
This trip has been so fun and interesting. The people here in St Petersburg have all been nothing but a pleasure. Many of them can speak English and will try very hard to understand you. They never seem frustrated they just smile and try to understand. During our stay here several things have been most interesting.
1. The traffic is amazing, these people can somehow drive 3 wide on a stet with only 2 lanes. We take a different route to the baby home every time because our driver is trying to avoid a jam.
2. There are lots of baby buggies. Not stollers but actual buggies and you are just as likely to see a man pushing it as a woman. These buggies have to cost $500 - $1000!
3. About every other woman/girl you see is wearing heels. Not just heels but stilettos. This explains the drinking because I have to have a few drinks to tolerate heels like that too! Hard to photograph these w/o being too obvious.
4. I have been referring to this city as the "city of love". Joe says it's "the city of sex"! Every where you look you see couples walking with their arms around each other and holding one another. Occasionally you will even see them sitting on laps. But I say the city of love because we have seen tons of people caring fresh flowers that they just bought for someone.
This morning we had another visit with our little girl. Then we met with the Baby Home director and got to ask questions about her care. To this point she has been very calm but shell smile, laugh and play with us but when the doctor came in she just turned it on. She was running around and throwing balls and laughing. The doctor said she had never seen P like that before. It was wonderful to see her so happy and excited. Shortly after, they came to get her for lunch and a nap and Joe and I went over to the local mall to waste some time before our next visit. We ate at Pizza Hut. We ordered some lattes...yes from Pizza Hut! Then later had some pizza. When I got the bill I noticed that the tax was like 28%. At least that's what it appeared to be, hard to tell when you can't read. After that we went and bought a couple of souvenirs for the boys and a little coat for P. We took it back and tried it on and it fit perfect. She was a delight as always...we took tons of video and pictures. I've been looking through them and just smiling. We are both in love and can't wait to get her home! I will post pictures later but I have no way to get them off my camera right now.
This evening was a perfect night to walk around. We walked to a lovely McDonalds for dinner (we can only afford so many $15 salads)! After dinner we went to a souvenir shop to look around. We bought P a doll that reminded us of our visit. Each doll had a different emotion and it made me think of all of the different emotions she has shown us during these visits. The dolls sell anywhere from $15 to $1000 so we are going to price around and hopefully get a couple of more before we leave.
Well that's all for now... We will see P 2 more times tomorrow and then sign the papers hat indicate we want her to be a part of our family.
Goodnight
1. The traffic is amazing, these people can somehow drive 3 wide on a stet with only 2 lanes. We take a different route to the baby home every time because our driver is trying to avoid a jam.
2. There are lots of baby buggies. Not stollers but actual buggies and you are just as likely to see a man pushing it as a woman. These buggies have to cost $500 - $1000!
3. About every other woman/girl you see is wearing heels. Not just heels but stilettos. This explains the drinking because I have to have a few drinks to tolerate heels like that too! Hard to photograph these w/o being too obvious.
4. I have been referring to this city as the "city of love". Joe says it's "the city of sex"! Every where you look you see couples walking with their arms around each other and holding one another. Occasionally you will even see them sitting on laps. But I say the city of love because we have seen tons of people caring fresh flowers that they just bought for someone.
This morning we had another visit with our little girl. Then we met with the Baby Home director and got to ask questions about her care. To this point she has been very calm but shell smile, laugh and play with us but when the doctor came in she just turned it on. She was running around and throwing balls and laughing. The doctor said she had never seen P like that before. It was wonderful to see her so happy and excited. Shortly after, they came to get her for lunch and a nap and Joe and I went over to the local mall to waste some time before our next visit. We ate at Pizza Hut. We ordered some lattes...yes from Pizza Hut! Then later had some pizza. When I got the bill I noticed that the tax was like 28%. At least that's what it appeared to be, hard to tell when you can't read. After that we went and bought a couple of souvenirs for the boys and a little coat for P. We took it back and tried it on and it fit perfect. She was a delight as always...we took tons of video and pictures. I've been looking through them and just smiling. We are both in love and can't wait to get her home! I will post pictures later but I have no way to get them off my camera right now.
This evening was a perfect night to walk around. We walked to a lovely McDonalds for dinner (we can only afford so many $15 salads)! After dinner we went to a souvenir shop to look around. We bought P a doll that reminded us of our visit. Each doll had a different emotion and it made me think of all of the different emotions she has shown us during these visits. The dolls sell anywhere from $15 to $1000 so we are going to price around and hopefully get a couple of more before we leave.
Well that's all for now... We will see P 2 more times tomorrow and then sign the papers hat indicate we want her to be a part of our family.
Goodnight
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Day 2
So today I was clearly thirsty at breakfast because I filled my plate full of fruit and had 4 glasses of water. I also had an omlette but this time I could understand the lady enough to be able to order cheese and peppers in it vs adding my own cheese later. There are a lot more people at breakfast this morning. Mostly business men. The hotel offers mimosas every morning for breakfast on the Buffett.
We saw Polina this morning and had a great visit. We played with toys and read books. Then we went to the mall and hung out. The mall had a burger king, KFC, Pizza Hut and some other American restrarauts. The thing that I found interesting is that they sell beer at the Burger King kind of like we do at a NFL game. Joe has learned to communicate that he would like a "vanilla latte" to people which has made the trip nice...lol
We returned to the baby house for second visit and it was wonderful. Our little miss is sick with a cold and congestion so she just wanted to lay her head on my chest and be padded. I turned her around so she was looking at Joe and after about 15 minutes I took her and sat her on joes lap. She didn't cry. She just layed her head against his chest. We took some photos and showed her herself on camera then we got out our photo book and showed her pictures of the boys and mama and dada. She pointed to us with her finger. She really studied the boys photo. Then we got out some bubbles and her eyes just lit up! She walked over and popped some of them. Shorty after that the caretaker came to take her away. We gave her hugs and kisses and told her "paka paka". She waved to us and away she went. We are both in love. She is a very precious little girl.
Below is a picture of the dog house for the resident "watch dog" on the baby home property.
I miss my boys terribly and can't wait to see them on Friday! As for pictures, you'll have to wait since I don't have a connection for my ad card.
We saw Polina this morning and had a great visit. We played with toys and read books. Then we went to the mall and hung out. The mall had a burger king, KFC, Pizza Hut and some other American restrarauts. The thing that I found interesting is that they sell beer at the Burger King kind of like we do at a NFL game. Joe has learned to communicate that he would like a "vanilla latte" to people which has made the trip nice...lol
We returned to the baby house for second visit and it was wonderful. Our little miss is sick with a cold and congestion so she just wanted to lay her head on my chest and be padded. I turned her around so she was looking at Joe and after about 15 minutes I took her and sat her on joes lap. She didn't cry. She just layed her head against his chest. We took some photos and showed her herself on camera then we got out our photo book and showed her pictures of the boys and mama and dada. She pointed to us with her finger. She really studied the boys photo. Then we got out some bubbles and her eyes just lit up! She walked over and popped some of them. Shorty after that the caretaker came to take her away. We gave her hugs and kisses and told her "paka paka". She waved to us and away she went. We are both in love. She is a very precious little girl.
Below is a picture of the dog house for the resident "watch dog" on the baby home property.
I miss my boys terribly and can't wait to see them on Friday! As for pictures, you'll have to wait since I don't have a connection for my ad card.
Monday, August 29, 2011
Day 1
What a day. It's 10pm now. So here is how the day went...
Joe and I went down to breakfast at the hotel. They had both American and Russian items. I had salmon with tomatoes and cream cheese on a wheat cracker with some coffee and an omelette. Joe had yogurt w/cereal and an omelette. After that we packed up our cameras and toys and headed to the Ministry of Education. It was here that we met our coordinator Natasha and our translator. We went inside and met with a lady that went over Polinas basic information and ask if we wanted to meet her. We said yes and sighed a book showing we had been there. Then we left for the orphanage. It was about a 40 min drive but still in a very populated area. Along the way our translator pointed out some historic buildings and explained how things used to be under the Soviet rule and how they are different now. When we got to the baby home we went in the back door and down a long hallway that kind of felt like the lower level of a hospital. The kitchen and maintenance area. We went up some stairs to the music room and waited. The orphanage reminded me of a very old school or hospital. It was not updated but seemed well maintained. The music room had laminate floors with a large rug in the center, toys tucked away in a cabinet, tiny little chairs for the children and some adult chairs lined up out of the way. I would assume the room is used for performances or parties. When they brought her in she took one look at us and started crying. I picked her up and she buried her head into my shoulder. When she started to calm down, she would look at Joe and start crying again. She was terrified of him. Apparently this is very normal since most of the children have never seen men. It took about 20 minutes before she could look at Joe and not cry, but she remained very cautious of him the remainder of the visit. The rest of the visit we spent with her on my lap playing with toys and Joe sat on a chair off to the side of us. Toward the end of the visit she was rolling a ball to him and she took a book that he handed her and smiled. When I watched the video she was smiling and laughing a good portion of our visit which made me feel good. When her care giver came in to get her she hopped up and walked
After our visit we came back to the hotel and had their "business" lunch. It was very Russian and Joe was not impressed. I thought it was good and very healthy. After that we went and took a nap and then got up and walked down to the river to a coffee. The coffee shop had something for the whole family...coffee for Joe, wine for me, ice cream for kids, they even sold cigarettes Marge!
The people here are most interesting. Most of the women under 35 are wearing stilettos with tight jeans or short skirts. We have seen quite a few rather intimate couples and it appears that any night of the week is a party night. Tonight, Monday we passed a huge limo with quite the party inside.
The people here are very proper and quiet spoken. It appears there is quite a separation of wealth. Things are very expensive and you can tell many people are poor.
Tomorrow we go back to the baby home at 9 am.
Joe and I went down to breakfast at the hotel. They had both American and Russian items. I had salmon with tomatoes and cream cheese on a wheat cracker with some coffee and an omelette. Joe had yogurt w/cereal and an omelette. After that we packed up our cameras and toys and headed to the Ministry of Education. It was here that we met our coordinator Natasha and our translator. We went inside and met with a lady that went over Polinas basic information and ask if we wanted to meet her. We said yes and sighed a book showing we had been there. Then we left for the orphanage. It was about a 40 min drive but still in a very populated area. Along the way our translator pointed out some historic buildings and explained how things used to be under the Soviet rule and how they are different now. When we got to the baby home we went in the back door and down a long hallway that kind of felt like the lower level of a hospital. The kitchen and maintenance area. We went up some stairs to the music room and waited. The orphanage reminded me of a very old school or hospital. It was not updated but seemed well maintained. The music room had laminate floors with a large rug in the center, toys tucked away in a cabinet, tiny little chairs for the children and some adult chairs lined up out of the way. I would assume the room is used for performances or parties. When they brought her in she took one look at us and started crying. I picked her up and she buried her head into my shoulder. When she started to calm down, she would look at Joe and start crying again. She was terrified of him. Apparently this is very normal since most of the children have never seen men. It took about 20 minutes before she could look at Joe and not cry, but she remained very cautious of him the remainder of the visit. The rest of the visit we spent with her on my lap playing with toys and Joe sat on a chair off to the side of us. Toward the end of the visit she was rolling a ball to him and she took a book that he handed her and smiled. When I watched the video she was smiling and laughing a good portion of our visit which made me feel good. When her care giver came in to get her she hopped up and walked

The people here are most interesting. Most of the women under 35 are wearing stilettos with tight jeans or short skirts. We have seen quite a few rather intimate couples and it appears that any night of the week is a party night. Tonight, Monday we passed a huge limo with quite the party inside.
The people here are very proper and quiet spoken. It appears there is quite a separation of wealth. Things are very expensive and you can tell many people are poor.
Tomorrow we go back to the baby home at 9 am.
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